Celibacy:: True Love Waits...

I found something meaningful today to talk about.. Its been on my mind alllll week, and Im sure this will stir some people up. Lets talk about sex! WOOT! LOL

cel·i·ba·cy

noun \ˈse-lə-bə-sē\

Definition of CELIBACY

1

: the state of not being married

2

a : abstention from sexual intercourse b : abstention by vow from marriage 

 mhmmm. Something that ALOT of us have struggled with. Including myself, but Ive come to realize that.. sex is not over rated. Not at all. But I do realize WHY God intended on us to be married to have sex.

Now, I know that being saved a lot of people wont touch on sex and all the things that come with it. They just frown on it and tell you that its a sin and your going to hell. I wont do that because I know that's probably one of the reasons I had the "i don't care you church people don't know what it is I'm going through" attitude about sex for so long.

Soul ties. Are something that were intended to bring a husband and wife together. NOT two random people who "care" about each other. Think about it like this. When you have sex you are entering into another persons body. "Becoming one" Sex is so much more than a physical act... it is so much deeper, and I hope that by reading this I can get a little spark going in your head to think about it in the correct manner.

Like I was saying becoming one...creates a tie, or a bond, because you have shared yourself in an intimate manner with whomever it is that your laying down with. That is why..it hurts so much when you break up with anyone you have been intimate with or why you just cant leave them alone...ETC. Because there was a bond made between you two in the spirit realm... So here comes the emotions.. the crying the arguing...the depression. Since you are not one with that person anymore.. what are you? Half and or broken. I know that sounds crazy but think about it. Your wife/husband is sent into your life to COMPLETE you. So think about how many people you've slept with...okay...you've given a piece of your self to each and every last person you have been with sexually, and after so many heartaches and frustrations on as to why you cant keep a woman or a man ...Its simply because realistically..you have nothing to give them if you continually give your heart and your soul away to people who are not meant for you.

We have to be careful, soul ties are powerful and I myself have struggled with them. The way that the media portrays sex...like one night stands, etc is a trick of the enemy. He would like nothing more but to destroy you and keep you away from the man/woman of God that the lord would like to send you. God honors dedication.. he will not allow your spouse to come into your life if he can not trust you with them to be faithful and true to not only them..but to him..

Matthew 6:33 "But seek ye FIRST the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you."

  

Ill use what my father told me in church one Sunday. If you are chasing the lord and putting him FIRST before everything else.. You and your SOUL MATE have no choice but smack heads because if both of you are chasing your purpose and it is in the will of God for you to be together.. then you align when its the season for you to meet. Otherwise the bible says when you are single you MUST mind the things of the lord. God knew who he created you to be with before you were even born. It is our divine destiny to fulfill HIS will. Of course he will always give us a choice, because the lord is a gentleman. My challenge to you all is to think about if you will you settle for the things YOU would like.. or would you rather WAIT and receive the BEST thing for you..that God had predestined you to have before you even realized what love was?

I believe that you honestly cant know what true love is until you understand...the love of Jesus. Jesus IS faithful to us even when we aren't faithful to him and that will NEVER change. He died for the people who put the nails in his hand and stabbed him in the side also.... What a true example of how awesome and loving our savior is to die for the very people who tortured him on Calvary. 

I encourage all of you to fall in love with Jesus, now, before its too late. He'll never leave you, forsake you, lie to you.. and he is a source of comfort even when we are in desperate desire of a comforter. Even if we do find true love..no one can compare to the love of God..... #imgone. 

If you dont know Jesus as your personal savior but would like to just say this prayer out loud and mean it with your whole heart. The lord knows your heart yes, but your actions are a DIRECT result of whats in your heart.

"The Sinners Prayer"..........................

         Heavenly Father:..........................................................................
I come to you in prayer asking for the forgiveness of
my Sins.  I confess with my mouth and believe with my
heart that Jesus is your Son, And that he died on the
Cross at Calvary that I might be forgiven and have
Eternal Life in the Kingdom of Heaven.  Father, I believe
that Jesus rose from the dead and I ask you right now
to come in to my life and be my personal Lord and
Savior. I repent of my Sins and will Worship you all the
day's of my Life!. Because your word is truth, I confess
with my mouth that I am Born Again and Cleansed
by the Blood of Jesus!   In Jesus Name, Amen.

 

That's all that I have. If you said that prayer CONGRATS!!! Welcome to the biggest family on earth!! =) get into that word and study study study. I love you and Jesus loves you if you feel that no one else does. Stay encouraged always..

Follow Christ,
Not Man,
For it is him where you will find peace and comfort. <3

-niotuLOVEr
(figure it out...)

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